| Location | Blyth Northumberland |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 7/2006 |
| Date of Death | 7/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,778 since 12/02/2008 |
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OLIVIA ELLEN BLYTH born 24th July 2006 lived for only 1hr 37mins weighed 1lb 3oz.
OLIVIA'S STORY
We had been trying for a baby since we got married in May 2003. We knew it wouldn't be easy as
I have PCOS. After unsuccessfully trying on our own it was time to seek help. We visited our
consultant who was very supportive towards us from the start. I was given medication to take but
after 3 cycles it still hadn't worked. In January 2006 we started injections to make me
ovulate. The first cycle didn't work, my eggs hadn't grown big enough so the dose was
increased and the second cycle commenced, the eggs were just the right size. I was given a
injection to release my eggs and the rest was up to nature. After 10 days my period still
hadn't arrived I was hoping and praying it had worked the next day I stated bleeding. Back on
the injections again, we went to the clinic to see how big my eggs were and to our surprise a
pregnancy sac was detected. The last cycle had worked and the bleed I had was a implantation bleed.
We had to have it confirmed by a blood test, waiting for the results felt like a lifetime. Sure
enough I was pregnant, my dream had come true. The excitement was short lived I had a heavy bleed 5
days later. I was sure I had lost my baby but a scan showed my little ones heartbeat as strong as
ever. This happened on 2 other occasions and my strong girl came through. From 12 weeks onwards I
felt great and was looking forward to becoming a mammy. On the 1st July I didn't feel right
but stupidly put it down to just being pregnant. The next morning at 6:10am I turned over in bed
and whoosh my waters broke. We went straight to hospital where I was told that things weren't
looking good, our baby only had a 10% chance of survival and that i would probably go into labour at
any time. Nothing happened and the next day I was allowed home, under strict instructions I was to
come back to the hospital if I felt ill. For the next 3 weeks we were backwards and forwards to the
hospital for different tests, these showed my infection levels were normal and the baby's
heartbeat was still strong, a little flicker of hope for us. Our little fighter hung on in and then
on 24th July at 2am my contractions started. We rushed to hospital where I was examined and
wasn't dilated at all, the staff said that we had time to be transferred but the consultant on
call that night wouldn't allow it. I was so annoyed, what right did this man have to take the
chance of survival away form my little one. In the end he was right as 20mins later she arrived my
beautiful little girl. She was rushed to SCBU, I didn't even get the chance to see her. My
husband wasn't allowed to see her either and him and my father went to the chapel to pray, my
mam stayed with me and was great support, she told me not to give up hope. Just then the nurse came
to report on Olivia's progress and said to prepare for the worst, she was too weak to take
oxygen via a machine and her heart rate was dropping. Whilst I was delivering the placenta my baby
was dying and there was nothing I could do about it. Eventually 50 min's after she was born I
was taken to her. Her limp little body lay so still, I had never seen anything so tiny, she was
beautiful and had a dimple in her nose just like her daddy. I held her as oxygen was manually
pumped into her. She never moved I wished for her to let out a cry but the silence was never
broken. Olivia's heart stopped half and hour ago the consultant informed us, it's up to
you when to stop her oxygen supply, at first I didn't want them to stop in hope that a miracle
would happen and our girl would wake up, but at 23 weeks she didn't stand a chance. we
eventually gave our permission to stop, she slipped away in my arms. I hadn't even got to know
her and now she was gone forever. We spent the rest of the day with her, had her baptised and
family came to visit. I was discharged later that day I didn't want to let her to go hardest
thing was leaving her behind. I couldn't bare thinking of her all alone and where she would be.
As we left new baby's were leaving with their family with, balloons and teddy's and we
were leaving empty handed. I felt so scared and apart of me had died too. We planned a funeral for
Olivia and made it as colourful as possible, We had bright balloons and pictures of her on show,
our church was full. Her daddy carried her tiny white coffin as we walked into Westlife coast to
coast. It was hard to pick a piece of music for her but the words from the song seemed appropriate.
How kind everyone was, the amount of cards and flowers we received was overwhelming. We are lucky
to have such wonderful family and friends. We miss our little princess so much and visit her little
grave every week, every night we blow her a kiss. It was later found that a infection had caused my
waters to break and Olivia had a infection that couldn't be picked up by my blood. I
couldn't stand the thought of her going through a post mortem so we allowed a blood sample to
be taken from the main artery in her chest, this is where the infection was found. Our little girl
had a fight on her hands from day one, she hung in as long as she could but had to give in. People
say to me that God only picks special roses for his garden, but she was our special rose and we
wanted her. She's in a better place now I know that, but it still dosen't take away the
heartache. We now have another wonderful daughter called Sophie she has brightened up our world
again. Sophie will know what a brave and beautiful big sister she has. We'll never forget
Olivia she's our little princess and always will be.
Love you always sweetheart
From
Mammy,Daddy and Little Sis Sophie
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PLEASE COME TO MY PARTY.............
♥ Dear Olivia,♥
♥ You are invited to Daniel Swaddle's ♥
♥ Birthday Party on the 16th April 2009 ♥
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♥ Everyone welcome & no presents required. ♥
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♥ LOVE DANIEL AND JUDE. X X ♥
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11TH APRIL 2009
♥ WITH LOVE AT EASTER. ♥
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═╔══╝══╚══╗ FOR A SPECIAL ANGEL.
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Memories of Easter past
Keep them in your heart
Know that I am at my best
With wings that never part
Standing right beside you
With wings that span so wide
Covering you with so much love
You're beauty at my side
Every prayer you whisper
Comes with special glow
Know that I am with you
Everywhere you go
Especially now at Easter
With special golden wings
I'm smiling down on loved ones
My soul forever sings
I'll send a special Halo
To shine above you all
With peace and love my memory
My memory covers you with shawl. ♥
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☆ LOVE TO YOU ☆
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FROM JUDE.X
1ST FEBRUARY 2009
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They are not dead,
Who leave us this great heritage of remembering joy.
They still live in our hearts,
In the happiness we knew, in the dreams we shared.
They still breathe,
In the lingering fragrance,windblown, from their favourite flowers.
They still smile in the moonlight’s silver,
And laugh in the sunlight’s sparking gold.
They still speak in the echoes of the words we’ve heard them say again and again.
They still move,
In the rhythm of waving grasses, in the dance of the tossing branches.
They are not dead;
Their memory is warm in our hearts, comfort in our sorrow.
They are not apart from us, but part of us,
For love is eternal,
And those we love shall be with us throughout all eternity.
Anon.
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20TH JANUARY 2009
GOOD MORNING SWEET ANGEL.X
☆ LOVE TO YOU ☆
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FROM JUDE.X
♥ ♥ 31st December 2008♥ ♥
GOODNIGHT SWEET ANGEL
♥ ♥ New Year’s Reflections.♥ ♥
♥ ♥Looking back on the months gone by,
As a new year starts and an old one ends,
We contemplate what brought us joy,
And we think of our loved ones and our friends.♥ ♥
♥ ♥Recalling all the happy times,
Remembering how they enriched our lives
We reflect upon who really counts,
As the fresh and bright new year arrives.♥ ♥
♥ ♥And when I ponder those who do,
Immediately think of you.♥ ♥
♥ ♥Thanks for being one of the reasons I'll have a Happy New Year!♥ ♥
By Joanna Fuchs.
♥ ♥ I Wish You Health...♥♥
♥ So you may enjoy each day in comfort.♥
♥ I wish you the Love of friends and family...♥
♥ And Peace within your heart.♥
♥ I wish you the Beauty of nature...♥
♥ That you may enjoy the work of God.♥
♥ I wish you Wisdom to choose priorities...♥
♥ For those things that really matter in life.♥
♥ I wish you Generousity so you may share...♥
♥ All good things that come to you.♥
♥ I wish you Happiness and Joy...♥
♥ And Blessings for the New Year.♥
♥ I wish you the best of everything...♥
♥ That you so well deserve.♥
♥ ♥ HAPPY NEW YEAR FRIEND! ♥ ♥
"Angel"
Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, dear, was you.
Angel wings, upon the clouds,
Your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little angel,
No more tears you have to weep.
little prayers,are sent to you,
The short life you led;
Your family will never forget you,
So rest your little head.
I know God will look after you,
Now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon,
Your legacy will survive.
You’re beautiful, you’re endless,
Now stretch your wings and fly,
Your loved by so many,
It will never be goodbye.
Close your pretty eyes,
No more tears,just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully,
we know you did your best.
Rest peacefully Olivia xxx
Such a beautiful tiny little angel,may you rest peacefuly up in the stars & look down on your family & keep them safe,god bless you,xxxxxx
*•.(*•.♥ .•*).•* ♥`RAINBOW •`♥
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When you think your road is rocky and a bit too steep to climb,
When you think your guardian angel needs to work some overtime,
When your personal jigsaw puzzle has some pieces that won't fit,
When life has no rhyme or reason and you can't make sense of it,
YOU NEED A RAINBOW When the clouds are dark and stormy
And have blocked the sunshine out, And perhaps you start to wonder
What this life is all about, When your trials and tribulations seem to be so hard to bear,
And it seems there is no justice anytime or anywhere, LOOK FOR YOUR RAINBOW
When the molehills seem like mountains and the obstacles are great,
When you feel so heavy laden and your worries just inflate,
When you can't see any ending to the problems that you face,
For they just keep on increasing and you need some breathing space,
PRAY FOR YOUR RAINBOW It may be you need to look a little higher than before,
Or perhaps a little further to see past the clouds once more.
But you'll know it's worth the effort when your rainbow you can see,
And you understand the love behind God's creativity,
SEARCH FOR YOUR RAINBOW
For your rainbow holds a promise that this turbulence will cease,
And your inner conflict will become, instead, deep inner peace.
But if, though searching, you can't find your rainbow at this time,
Until you can, I say with love, you're welcome to share mine.
Love Always Jude.x
DANIEL SWADDLE'S MAM.
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