| Location | Blyth Northumberland |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 7/2006 |
| Date of Death | 7/2006 |
| Visitors | 2,252 since 12/02/2008 |
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OLIVIA ELLEN BLYTH born 24th July 2006 lived for only 1hr 37mins weighed 1lb 3oz.
OLIVIA'S STORY
We had been trying for a baby since we got married in May 2003. We knew it wouldn't be easy as I have PCOS. After unsuccessfully trying on our own it was time to seek help. We visited our consultant who was very supportive towards us from the start. I was given medication to take but after 3 cycles it still hadn't worked. In January 2006 we started injections to make me ovulate. The first cycle didn't work, my eggs hadn't grown big enough so the dose was increased and the second cycle commenced, the eggs were just the right size. I was given a injection to release my eggs and the rest was up to nature. After 10 days my period still hadn't arrived I was hoping and praying it had worked the next day I stated bleeding. Back on the injections again, we went to the clinic to see how big my eggs were and to our surprise a pregnancy sac was detected. The last cycle had worked and the bleed I had was a implantation bleed. We had to have it confirmed by a blood test, waiting for the results felt like a lifetime. Sure enough I was pregnant, my dream had come true. The excitement was short lived I had a heavy bleed 5 days later. I was sure I had lost my baby but a scan showed my little ones heartbeat as strong as ever. This happened on 2 other occasions and my strong girl came through. From 12 weeks onwards I felt great and was looking forward to becoming a mammy. On the 1st July I didn't feel right but stupidly put it down to just being pregnant. The next morning at 6:10am I turned over in bed and whoosh my waters broke. We went straight to hospital where I was told that things weren't looking good, our baby only had a 10% chance of survival and that i would probably go into labour at any time. Nothing happened and the next day I was allowed home, under strict instructions I was to come back to the hospital if I felt ill. For the next 3 weeks we were backwards and forwards to the hospital for different tests, these showed my infection levels were normal and the baby's heartbeat was still strong, a little flicker of hope for us. Our little fighter hung on in and then on 24th July at 2am my contractions started. We rushed to hospital where I was examined and wasn't dilated at all, the staff said that we had time to be transferred but the consultant on call that night wouldn't allow it. I was so annoyed, what right did this man have to take the chance of survival away form my little one. In the end he was right as 20mins later she arrived my beautiful little girl. She was rushed to SCBU, I didn't even get the chance to see her. My husband wasn't allowed to see her either and him and my father went to the chapel to pray, my mam stayed with me and was great support, she told me not to give up hope. Just then the nurse came to report on Olivia's progress and said to prepare for the worst, she was too weak to take oxygen via a machine and her heart rate was dropping. Whilst I was delivering the placenta my baby was dying and there was nothing I could do about it. Eventually 50 min's after she was born I was taken to her. Her limp little body lay so still, I had never seen anything so tiny, she was beautiful and had a dimple in her nose just like her daddy. I held her as oxygen was manually pumped into her. She never moved I wished for her to let out a cry but the silence was never broken. Olivia's heart stopped half and hour ago the consultant informed us, it's up to you when to stop her oxygen supply, at first I didn't want them to stop in hope that a miracle would happen and our girl would wake up, but at 23 weeks she didn't stand a chance. we eventually gave our permission to stop, she slipped away in my arms. I hadn't even got to know her and now she was gone forever. We spent the rest of the day with her, had her baptised and family came to visit. I was discharged later that day I didn't want to let her to go hardest thing was leaving her behind. I couldn't bare thinking of her all alone and where she would be. As we left new baby's were leaving with their family with, balloons and teddy's and we were leaving empty handed. I felt so scared and apart of me had died too. We planned a funeral for Olivia and made it as colourful as possible, We had bright balloons and pictures of her on show, our church was full. Her daddy carried her tiny white coffin as we walked into Westlife coast to coast. It was hard to pick a piece of music for her but the words from the song seemed appropriate. How kind everyone was, the amount of cards and flowers we received was overwhelming. We are lucky to have such wonderful family and friends. We miss our little princess so much and visit her little grave every week, every night we blow her a kiss. It was later found that a infection had caused my waters to break and Olivia had a infection that couldn't be picked up by my blood. I couldn't stand the thought of her going through a post mortem so we allowed a blood sample to be taken from the main artery in her chest, this is where the infection was found. Our little girl had a fight on her hands from day one, she hung in as long as she could but had to give in. People say to me that God only picks special roses for his garden, but she was our special rose and we wanted her. She's in a better place now I know that, but it still dosen't take away the heartache. We now have another wonderful daughter called Sophie she has brightened up our world again. Sophie will know what a brave and beautiful big sister she has. We'll never forget Olivia she's our little princess and always will be.
Love you always sweetheart
From
Mammy,Daddy and Little Sis Sophie
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FOR MONDAY
Your gentle face and patient smile
With sadness we recall
You had a kindly word for each
And died beloved by all.
FOR TUESDAY
In our hearts your memory lingers,
Sweetly tender, fond and true,
There is not a day,
That we do not think of you.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Your life was a blessing
Your memory a treasure...
You are loved beyond words
And missed beyond measure...
FOR THURSDAY
You are not forgotten loved one
Nor will you ever be.
As long as life and memory last
We will remember thee.
FOR FRIDAY
After Glow
I'd like the memory of me
To be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow
Of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo
Whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times
And bright and sunny days
I'd like the tears
Of those who grieve,
To dry before the sun
Of happy memories that I leave
When life is done.
FOR SATURDAY
I'm Free
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God laid for me.
I took His hand when I heard Him call
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way,
I found that peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship started, a laugh, a kiss,
Ah yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine to tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savoured much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me
God wanted me now; He set me free.
FOR SUNDAY
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not here to see...
If the sun should rise and find your
Eyes filled with tears for me,
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today...
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you...
And each time you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand...
That Jesus came and called my name,
And took me by the hand.
He said my place was ready
In Heaven far above...
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart...
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here in your heart.
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……………Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
………….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."
xxxxx
PLEASE COME TO MY PARTY.............
♥ Dear Olivia,♥
♥ You are invited to Daniel Swaddle's ♥
♥ Birthday Party on the 16th April 2009 ♥
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♥ Everyone welcome & no presents required. ♥
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♥ LOVE DANIEL AND JUDE. X X ♥
happy easter
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11TH APRIL 2009
♥ WITH LOVE AT EASTER. ♥
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Memories of Easter past
Keep them in your heart
Know that I am at my best
With wings that never part
Standing right beside you
With wings that span so wide
Covering you with so much love
You're beauty at my side
Every prayer you whisper
Comes with special glow
Know that I am with you
Everywhere you go
Especially now at Easter
With special golden wings
I'm smiling down on loved ones
My soul forever sings
I'll send a special Halo
To shine above you all
With peace and love my memory
My memory covers you with shawl. ♥
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☆ LOVE TO YOU ☆
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FROM JUDE.X
1ST FEBRUARY 2009
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They are not dead,
Who leave us this great heritage of remembering joy.
They still live in our hearts,
In the happiness we knew, in the dreams we shared.
They still breathe,
In the lingering fragrance,windblown, from their favourite flowers.
They still smile in the moonlight’s silver,
And laugh in the sunlight’s sparking gold.
They still speak in the echoes of the words we’ve heard them say again and again.
They still move,
In the rhythm of waving grasses, in the dance of the tossing branches.
They are not dead;
Their memory is warm in our hearts, comfort in our sorrow.
They are not apart from us, but part of us,
For love is eternal,
And those we love shall be with us throughout all eternity.
Anon.
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20TH JANUARY 2009
GOOD MORNING SWEET ANGEL.X
☆ LOVE TO YOU ☆
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FROM JUDE.X
♥ ♥ 31st December 2008♥ ♥
GOODNIGHT SWEET ANGEL
♥ ♥ New Year’s Reflections.♥ ♥
♥ ♥Looking back on the months gone by,
As a new year starts and an old one ends,
We contemplate what brought us joy,
And we think of our loved ones and our friends.♥ ♥
♥ ♥Recalling all the happy times,
Remembering how they enriched our lives
We reflect upon who really counts,
As the fresh and bright new year arrives.♥ ♥
♥ ♥And when I ponder those who do,
Immediately think of you.♥ ♥
♥ ♥Thanks for being one of the reasons I'll have a Happy New Year!♥ ♥
By Joanna Fuchs.
♥ ♥ I Wish You Health...♥♥
♥ So you may enjoy each day in comfort.♥
♥ I wish you the Love of friends and family...♥
♥ And Peace within your heart.♥
♥ I wish you the Beauty of nature...♥
♥ That you may enjoy the work of God.♥
♥ I wish you Wisdom to choose priorities...♥
♥ For those things that really matter in life.♥
♥ I wish you Generousity so you may share...♥
♥ All good things that come to you.♥
♥ I wish you Happiness and Joy...♥
♥ And Blessings for the New Year.♥
♥ I wish you the best of everything...♥
♥ That you so well deserve.♥
♥ ♥ HAPPY NEW YEAR FRIEND! ♥ ♥
"Angel"
Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, dear, was you.
Angel wings, upon the clouds,
Your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little angel,
No more tears you have to weep.
little prayers,are sent to you,
The short life you led;
Your family will never forget you,
So rest your little head.
I know God will look after you,
Now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon,
Your legacy will survive.
You’re beautiful, you’re endless,
Now stretch your wings and fly,
Your loved by so many,
It will never be goodbye.
Close your pretty eyes,
No more tears,just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully,
we know you did your best.
Rest peacefully Olivia xxx
Such a beautiful tiny little angel,may you rest peacefuly up in the stars & look down on your family & keep them safe,god bless you,xxxxxx
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